
It has been an interesting few weeks in regards to online and social issues and information.
Recently an historic NSW court ruling in Australia found a jilted male lover responsible for posting private and personal images of his ex partner online (6 images in total). This is only one of a handful of cases where a successful prosecution has been carried out. When talking with older students about cyber safety it interesting to have some very challenging conversations about the responsibilities around online actions. Many students and adults that are confident online users are aware of the social and reputation consequences of inappropriate postings online; however many see no real legal consequences for these decisions and whilst we need to be careful of over legislating rules and regulations we need to ensure that society as a whole sets better expectations around what is acceptable or not.
For me this is where our parenting skills disappear, because they become absent in regards to engaging with their children when they are online or using various forms of technology. All the technological tools available our children means they can quickly and easily become engaged, involved and focused which generally means they are quiet and not annoying parents. For parents many have no interest, understanding or self confidence with the use of technology, games or activities our children are engaged in but this is no excuse. We have to start making time to watch, listen and talk with our children about what they do online. We need to be careful about applying our personal judgements around what our children consider fun and interesting, we do need to provide knowledge and skills so our children make smart and informed decisions and we need to provide clear guidelines about what is acceptable to share online about yourself and others and what is not.
Make time this week to find out 3 things you child likes to do online or with technology that you did not know before.
Ref The Age Article "Man jailed over nude Facebook photos" 22nd April 2012